it’s been a roller costar ride for me from past couple of months, trying to figure it out were exactly I went wrong, but I must say it’s not an easy task to assess yourself so easily. There are many instances in our life where we feel we didn't get what we are deserved to get but still we fail to-get those precious moments and dreams which we always live for. Those moments are tough to handle where we need to answer those questions by our self. really sometimes you feel so dejected and disappointed and u feel u have lost everything, your self confidence , your stake, your dignity......the list goes on, I think everyone must have gone through similar situation in their life at least once.
I can’t explain the exact feeling that every individual goes through this time but I am sure it’s not an easy time for us; this may be your final acid test of your life, a situation where your final outcome of this will decide your future destiny.
to bring in more clarity let take some real life instances where a young guy who is honest, sincere, filled with big dreams and passion, where he does everything to make his dreams come true, where he puts his 100% efforts, but still somehow he fails, many a times, he can’t understand why his efforts are going waste every time even though after all the hard-work and dedication???????This was not only the problem, at the same time his family was behind him to achieve things and he was upset he could not make his parents happy.
One day when he was sad, disheartened he thought he has lost the battle and lost all his hope. he was all alone thinking and was trying to understand where exactly he went wrong suddenly he heard a voice repeating his questions which were in his mind, for a moment he was confused and shocked, he screamed but he didn't find any one then he heard a voice again has he begun to listen to that strange voice again and again with concentration he saw a strange bright light appeared in front of him, suddenly light started explaining all the mistakes and weakness the boy made and made him realize why he went wrong again and again and told him that even though he gave 100% each time god tested him in all the possible way to assess you whether you are worth to get what you are asking.
whatever happens in our life there will be twist and turns, and the ride will be bumpy, the attitude what we show and think will make a whole difference in our life in achieving everything, don't get disappointed when u don't get what u have been dreaming of because god show the mirror of reality, he guides us and shows who are fake and real , he shows the true color of the world, so that we can make a better judgments in life...........the boy listens each word carefully and asks the guiding light a question, can u please tell me why did god made my journey so tough all these years,...........
It is when you stop going along with the crowd and start realizing that there are many things about yourself that you didn’t know and may not like. You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared because you barely know where you are now.
ReplyDeleteYou start realizing that people are selfish and that, maybe, those friends that you thought you were so close to aren’t exactly the greatest people you have ever met, and the people you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones. What you don’t recognize is that they are realizing that too, and aren’t really cold, catty, mean or insincere, but that they are as confused as you.
You look at your job… and it is not even close to what you thought you would be doing, or maybe you are looking for a job and realizing that you are going to have to start at the bottom and that scares you.
Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what others are doing and find yourself judging more than usual because suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and are constantly adding things to your list of what is acceptable and what isn’t. One minute, you are insecure and then the next, secure.
You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone and scared and confused. Suddenly, change is the enemy and you try and cling on to the past with dear life, but soon realize that the past is drifting further and further away, and there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward.
You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do such damage to you. Or you lie in bed and wonder why you can’t meet anyone decent enough that you want to get to know better. Or maybe you love someone but love someone else too and cannot figure out why you’re doing this because you know that you aren’t a bad person. One night stands and random hook ups start to look cheap. Getting wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic. You go through the same emotions and questions over and over, and talk with your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make a decision. You worry about loans, money, the future and making a life for yourself… and while winning the race would be great, right now you’d just like to be a contender!
What you may not realize is that every one reading this relates to it. We are in our best of times and our worst of times, trying as hard as we can to figure this whole thing out.
We call it the “Quarter-life Crisis.”
Send this to your twenty-something friends… maybe it will help someone feel like they aren’t alone in their state of confusion…
THIS IS LYF IN 20s