The unknown face of life

I am what I am, my life is my responsibility, I am responsible for all my actions, life is so beautiful but do we care for it?? Why we end up blaming everything, why we don’t enjoy the bitterness and harsh realities of life, why don’t we accept failures ,why we always question our abilities , why don’t we open our eyes at the right moment, we are sole responsible for our actions, but sometimes circumstances makes us who we are not ,but never the less we should accept it , learn from them and move on ,there is no point blaming anyone or anything, we should try to learn at every stage of our lives, this process is never ending. Start accepting failures, think and question yourself why you are going wrong way, why your efforts are not 100%, why don’t we discover our hidden potential? This search is a big question which continues to be the biggest puzzle to solve.
Life is so beautiful; it is filled with so many beautiful colors of joy, happiness, sadness, failures, grief, success, happy times, but still we don’t enjoy it. Enjoy life, life is too short, time waits for none. If you miss your chance, you miss it for life time, but don’t get dejected, life gives you opportunity at every step, and it depends upon whether you knock the door at the right time and right place. Don’t expect anyone to be with you physically but someone whom you love very much might be there for emotional support. So enjoy your life to the fullest. We are lucky to be born as human and experience such great things in our lives. So cheer up and get up every time you fall, the more you fall, the stronger, harder and tougher you become, accept the challenges be a knight rider of your destiny and discover your meaning of your life,
 Be beautiful yet simple and be happy whatever happens happens for good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

Discover the real soul

Who are we, why don’t we understand ourselves, why do we lack the faith and commitment in ourselves. Why we get distracted from our path, we make ourselves to forget who we are. After achieving little success from the hardship we forget who we are? Why we try to act as a different individual and put so many faces of our characters to different individuals. Why we fail each time to discover who we are, maybe the efforts are effortless, we forget or ignore the realities sometimes it looks like everything is finished, this is the end of life, but the same moment the ultimate power , our healer, best friend, parents, well wisher, who is in different forms guides us to take the correct path ,some call it as miracle , some tell as god has answered their prayers , but what is the most important thing all these experiences make our life beautiful we should learn from what we fail , we should learn from our failures and success , some time you see stagnation of failures ,but is it right and cry over those failures and waste time on it ?? the more we waste time on time on it to figure it out , we would be lost l somewhere, it is important to learn why you failed and get back to right track to discover yourself , your emotions, your strengths , weakness, abilities, faith, will power, zeal , fighting spirit, trust on ourselves, that day will be the best day of our life, when you know who you are , where you actually stand and how many miles to cover up, it will be the best feeling one can experience, so get ready , pack your abilities, willpower, confidence and move forward towards the path of your success. 

Dreams

What are dreams? Dreams have different answers for everyone, for some dreams might be a new hope , new direction , a new life , for some it’s a big question , big puzzle , but it is a part of every individual , without dreams life is incomplete ,may be we are rich or poor, dreams are associated and have great impact on our lives, from these dreams we get a new direction to our life , a new hope after every failures , we set a new standard each time when we fail, but still we dream big. Dream big, think big, then only you can achieve big in our lives. Every dream is possible unless we put our efforts into it. Even the impossible things can be achieved, that’s the power of dreams. 
So dream big but keep your eyes, ears, open and work hard towards your goal.

Failures

why we fail?the big question which always surround us, why people take failures as end of life, why do people do not accept failures, and move on ???  why cant we learn from our failures which are the stepping stones to  success. why cant we digest failures, is it so hard and difficult to understand them? i think the answers lie in our own failures, when we see so many success , we over shadow our true ethics, who we are ,and where we stand .it is very important for us  to understand the reason behind our failures, we need to open our eyes and face the reality that failures are part and parcel of our life ,each failures pumps you very much ,so take failures in more positive manner, and more you see , the better you become , 

so enjoy your failures and celebrate them !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

understanding the person who you are

understanding yourself is the best thing one can do , is it so easy to do???? may be not. understanding ourselves is the most exciting thing in the world for any individual, the more you try to find yourself , deeply you get lost in our own world,but it is good to  find our self .we come alone ,we go alone but in between we find and meet so many people and build many different relations with them , and get lost in others, not giving enough time for ourselves ,in this course of time we try to get the answers from these people , but still our questions are still unsolved. sometimes we get the answers when we are alone ,we should give time for ourselves , knowing who we are, what we are capable of doing , achieving, winning and many other answers we get when we know ourselves better rather than any one one else. so before making someone understand you, we should understand ourselves first!!!!!!!!!! 

CHANGE

Do we need change or change needs us, change changes everything, but still doesnt change everything, change bring new hopes, smile, new thinking, new direction , and new dimension  the way we look at things , the way we assess ourselves it gives us new meaning  to stay focus to our goals, dreams ,ambitions, and shows the direction to stay in the path of our success . hope change changes the negative paths and attitude in all of us and help us to move towards the new way of life  called change !!!!

Winning Is Not Everything afterall

Is winning in life everything! is it the end of our efforts, hard work, goals, and ambitions, is that the last thing in the world ,or is it the last level of our abilities, why we stress more on winning every time at all levels of our lives is there any end to it? That’s the question we need to find. Why every time people judge a person on his success. Is this the last thing left for us? Why don’t we come out of the shell of success and failures? No doubt winning is good but yet the way we look at it makes the difference .why people consider failures as bad , why we think failures closes the door to success ,failures makes us strong every time we fall , the more you fall the higher you bounce back to fight back to scale the new heights of our goals ,the graph of our life is like a sensex, our abilities are judged and rated according to peoples will , every time we fall people will laugh at you ,make fun of you, gossip about you , but still we should dare all this and go beyond their imagination . if people think 1 mile ahead , we should think 100 mile ahead of them, that’s should be the attitude of ours towards failures . let success don’t enter our heads , we should be cool yet be aggressive , keep our head always high , with high self respect, whether you lose or win is the secondary, the more you understand your abilities , your inner hidden powers within you , you will know what you want from life, so it’s good to lose some times………………to know yourself better…………………………………….

Who i am

who i am ?this one question is the most twisted in our lives, which we try to search whole life,yet we are unaware ,of  who we are,what we are, where is our final destiny, all these questions will always be with us even though we like it or hate it, in the journey called life.we meet so many people, try to build different relationship,but still we try to to find the answers from these people,at every step we take, we get some clues, little confusion, but we still think about the same old mystery.from the relationship which we make , some are successful, some are not , we learn from them and move on. in this process many of us try to be a different person or project someone else in front of everyone ,actually which we are not,by doing this some where we are going away from goals to find the answers of our questions. so its better  to be who you are, be true to yourself ,may be some people don't understand who we are , yet we need to to respect them and move on for our quest. at every failure we get a feeling from within ,who we are , what we are capable of , at that point of time we should try to connect ourselves from within, the day when you discover your inner voice ,which guides us through the path of our life, to the question who i am, i think we should get the answer 

who i am ...............

12-03-09

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success the most magical word to achieve!!!!!!!

i always wonder why success is given more importance than failures.they say failures are stepping stone to success,failures make you strong , never say quit, and many other. so when u achieve success why do people ignore after some point of time, every success creates hype with it , how far it goes is the big question.does success changes a person ???????????? there is no particular answer to it, because it depends from person to person,let me take my own example . by god grace i am very fortunate to see success and failures at very young age which came from hardwork and belief in myself, so the question is has success changed me ??? no , i am still the same old simple guy, with high ambitions in life ,never took success into my head, learned from each  failures and enjoyed them, i think this is the most important aspect of failures, you need to enjoy them very much. its the attitude which matters a lot at the end , whether you win or loose ,the way you win ,and commitment towards your work, belief , will power most important aspect of success and failures. unless you see failures how can you judge your potential,where you stand, failures are the most important part of our lives and will follow till the finish line, because life is a race, where every person wants to be first , but there is only one winner, so enjoy your failures more than success.

MY 1ST TAKE!

so finally i have started writing blogs, which i thought long time back to start , but no problems from now on. its very strange and nice feeling to post my thoughts into these blogs, sometimes i wonder what do people get  from all these, but later when we think about it, its gives us idea on how people out there have same thought process which you share, not every time, but feeling good to write my first blog,  i can  share my thoughts on blogs now, lets see where this journey leads to, still many miles to go, lot to achieve , cross many hurdles of life, many new journeys yet to be started, many new discoveries  to be made, and discover myself in this special journey called LIFE!!

10-03-09

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